relationship problems yet inbuilt social

Relationship problems. People relating to each other in a positive way without any relationship problems or conflicts
relationship problems yet inbuilt social

Relationship problems or supportive, affect our brains and bodies too. We are inbuilt biologically to be social, in whatever way we can be. Relating to others, in a good way, is good for us and our brains and bodies too!

Relationship problems or conflict

If you are having problems relating to others, having a relational therapy approach is a good way forward – see our webpages at the end of this article.

Attachment is needed for survival

“…attachment is as important for survival as any other fundamental biological need” (like food and water, ref social neuroscientist Dr Vrticka)

Research on social and relational neuroscience on attachment looks like backing this.

Social Neuroscience looks at the connection between the brain’s neural processes and social behaviour, “…to understand how the mind and behaviour are influenced by social factors”

Research is finding out that

      • how we are with one another actually affects our bodies as well as how we feel

      • our life experience can actually switch some of our genes on or off!

    What and how are they researching?

    Research into our bodies and hormones, and our behaviour, and scanning 2 or more people’s brains simultaneously, are all helping us learn how we can actually affect each other’s bodies and brains.

    “…attachment is one of those psychological and behavioural characteristics of humans that are so strong that … produce their distinct neurobiological signals” (in the body and brain)

    People with different attachment styles show different ways their brains process attachment related information!

    Having someone to support you in your life helps you to regulate your emotions (biologically) and has even been shown to increase your energy levels!

    Interested in therapy to overcome relationship problems, improve your ways of relating to others? See our web pages here on Cognitive Analytic Therapy or Psychodynamic work.

    Cognitive Analytic Therapy Cognitive Analytic Therapy (CAT) is a powerful, relational therapy. CAT uses the collaborative process between a therapist and a person, working together to look particularly at problems you might have between you and others.

    Psychodynamic Psychotherapy

    Psychodynamic psychotherapy is a helpful treatment for people who just find it hard to understand why they are experiencing certain difficulties within their relationships (relationship problems) and perhaps other symptoms too.

    Relationship problems. People relating to each other in a positive way without any relationship problems or conflicts
    Dr Jurai Darongkamas | Clinical Psychologist

    Author

    Dr Jurai Darongkamas

    Jurai is a Consultant Clinical Psychologist who worked in Mental Health in the National Health Service (NHS), 1986 – 2019.

    She now works part time alongside select colleagues offering high quality Psychological Therapies privately.

    She is an Associate Fellow of the British Psychological Society (AFBPsS), an experienced trainer and supervisor; previously Lead in an NHS Trust for people with complex difficulties and Board Trustee.

    Note

    This page has been written to provide a brief overview for the reader. It should not be used as a basis for any action until after obtaining a professional opinion about your unique difficulties, strengths, circumstances, life history, etc.